{"id":1013,"date":"2004-12-10T05:53:53","date_gmt":"2004-12-10T10:53:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/peacefulhippo.wordpress.com\/2004\/12\/10\/1013\/"},"modified":"2004-12-10T05:53:53","modified_gmt":"2004-12-10T10:53:53","slug":"1013","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/2004\/12\/10\/1013\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s the letter I sent out with my holiday cards; hope you enjoy it.<\/p>\n<p>Hugs,<br \/>\nMe<\/p>\n<p>December 8, 2004<\/p>\n<p>Dear Family and Friends,<\/p>\n<p>Happy Holidays!&nbsp; We hope the past year has been a good one for each of you.&nbsp; It was the best year ever for me.<\/p>\n<p>I have now been free of all prescriptions for over a year.&nbsp; I have<br \/>\nbeen helping many other people learn how they can do the same.&nbsp; I<br \/>\nfeel better than ever, thanks to the other things I am doing for my<br \/>\nhealth.&nbsp; I am running 6 online groups and two local self-help<br \/>\ngroups.&nbsp; Some years it has felt that I would never get to this<br \/>\npoint, and that I would feel miserable all the time.&nbsp; I do not<br \/>\ntrust a psychiatrist to look out for anyone\u2019s interests save those of<br \/>\nthe pharmaceutical companies.&nbsp; My website<br \/>\n(http:\/\/moss.witchesgathering.com) has the information on what I have<br \/>\nreplaced these harmful drugs with.<\/p>\n<p>Anyhow, I have been feeling better and better, and have been getting<br \/>\nmore involved in the community, both local and online.&nbsp; I am<br \/>\ncurrently managing 4 websites and am building a commercial website for<br \/>\nmy old friend Blind Lemming Chiffon (blindlemmingchiffon.com).&nbsp; I<br \/>\nam on two local non-profit boards and consult on another one.&nbsp; I<br \/>\nhave re-connected with my local\/regional religious community, and have<br \/>\ngotten many comments on how much better and happier I look.<\/p>\n<p>And on top of everything else, there is a wonderful lady named Kayla<br \/>\nDodd in my life.&nbsp; This time I\u2019m healthy enough to enjoy it and not<br \/>\nhave my so-called \u201cdisease\u201d get in the way of my relationship.&nbsp;<br \/>\nKayla moved here in October and we were Handfasted in early<br \/>\nNovember.&nbsp; Everything is simply wonderful between us.&nbsp; She<br \/>\nhas found work in the area, and is very motivated to contribute in<br \/>\nevery way to our relationship.&nbsp; She has gained the love and<br \/>\nconfidence of my friends as well.&nbsp; I\u2019m still getting used to the<br \/>\n\u201cus\u201d-ness of the situation, and I\u2019m sure next year\u2019s letter will be<br \/>\njointly authored.<\/p>\n<p>Last December, my ex-wife Beth contacted me, and we have renewed our<br \/>\nfriendship.&nbsp; We love and trust each other more than we did when we<br \/>\nwere married, 15 years ago, and she has become friends with Kayla (she<br \/>\nhas known Kayla longer than I have been involved with her), and has<br \/>\nbeen looking out for both of us.&nbsp; I am still in contact with<br \/>\nLaura, my most recent ex, and Janet is talking to me as well; several<br \/>\nex-girlfriends are also maintaining contact.&nbsp; I\u2019m glad to be able<br \/>\nto maintain friendly relationships with people who have been a part of<br \/>\nmy life.<\/p>\n<p>While my finances are improving, I was not able to get out to L.A. for<br \/>\nmy grandmother\u2019s 100th birthday, and it could be another couple years<br \/>\nbefore I can manage a visit on my own.&nbsp; When I woke up from my<br \/>\ndoctor-induced stupor, I found myself pretty badly in debt; with much<br \/>\nhelp from my parents and newly-learned levels of responsibility, I have<br \/>\ncut it by more than half, and should be mostly out of debt in another<br \/>\ntwo years.&nbsp; I know y\u2019all don\u2019t NEED to know this, but it is<br \/>\nanother sign of my growing health.<\/p>\n<p>My performing career has taken a stutter-step forward.&nbsp; I had two<br \/>\nmajor concerts this year, at science fiction conventions in Raleigh and<br \/>\nAsheville.&nbsp; I\u2019ve sold a few more copies of my CD and lyric<br \/>\nbooks.&nbsp; A student at UNC-Asheville asked to record me in the<br \/>\nschool studios.&nbsp; The result wasn\u2019t great, and most of the<br \/>\nrecordings were lost in the computer, but one song survived the<br \/>\nexperience.&nbsp; My friend John Blackwell is also \u201cthreatening\u201d to get<br \/>\nhis studio together and finish the job, and Blind Lemming Chiffon has<br \/>\noffered to underwrite part of the project in exchange for my work on<br \/>\nhis website.&nbsp; It would be good to get some professional recordings<br \/>\nof my music.&nbsp; I may be getting old, but I can still make music.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of which, it is hard to believe I\u2019m 52 now.&nbsp; I don\u2019t feel<br \/>\nit at all, unless you ask my back and ankles.&nbsp; If you had asked me<br \/>\nwhen I was 30, I would have thought that I would never make it this<br \/>\nfar.&nbsp; Now I\u2019m looking forward to another 52 years (one friend has<br \/>\nprophesied that I have another 58 to go; wishful thinking?).<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s hoping the coming year treats us all as well or better as the<br \/>\npast one did.&nbsp; Thank you all for being a part of my life.<\/p>\n<p>Hugs,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s the letter I sent out with my holiday cards; hope you enjoy it. Hugs, Me December 8, 2004 Dear Family and Friends, Happy Holidays!&nbsp; We hope the past year has been a good one for each of you.&nbsp; It was the best year ever for me. I have now been free of all prescriptions [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1013","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1013","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1013"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1013\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1013"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1013"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1013"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}