{"id":148,"date":"2013-01-08T17:26:33","date_gmt":"2013-01-08T22:26:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/peacefulhippo.wordpress.com\/2013\/01\/08\/another-slip\/"},"modified":"2013-01-08T17:26:33","modified_gmt":"2013-01-08T22:26:33","slug":"another-slip","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/2013\/01\/08\/another-slip\/","title":{"rendered":"Another slip"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of my ex-girlfriends had started talking to me, and it had begun to sound like most of our issues had been dealt with. After getting pretty far into a relationship with her emotionally, things started going south again. I had to break it off last night. My head was spinning, I was feeling attacked, I was put on the defensive, and was being told all those things didn&#8217;t matter or I misunderstood.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know who is wrong, and I don&#8217;t care. My job is to keep myself centered, not have to recover from frequent cognitive dissonances. I have to take care of myself first. If I hurt her, well, we&#8217;ve been through this before, she can tell herself she should have known better. I don&#8217;t like hurting anyone, and it seems more and more that I need to stay out of ALL relationships.&nbsp;&nbsp;I can&#8217;t help feeling lonely though.<\/p>\n<p>Blanket statement: If I&#8217;ve hurt you, I&#8217;m sorry. I&#8217;m in no shape to be in a relationship (love, emotions, sex, living together, roommates, whatever) and would appreciate it if you all would stop trying to entice me into one.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hugs,<\/p>\n<p>Me<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of my ex-girlfriends had started talking to me, and it had begun to sound like most of our issues had been dealt with. After getting pretty far into a relationship with her emotionally, things started going south again. I had to break it off last night. My head was spinning, I was feeling attacked, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=148"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=148"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=148"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=148"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}