For several days (I could look it up), I have felt like my sweetie and I have been on the verge of either a breakup or a breakthrough. I know which I preferred, but I don’t usually control these things. Well, yesterday while going to do laundry it came to a head, and while there were a lot of tears, we got the desired outcome. It’s always good when love increases, even with tears. Still have stuff to work out, but we’re even more committed to working it out.<\/p>\n
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It really hurt when she told me that I shouldn’t lose too much weight, that she couldn’t love me anymore. Somehow I got through to her that we are supposed to be supporting each other, and that I’m (really, she thought this) not losing weight just to show up the fact that she is not. I have tried to show her that I want her to become what she wants to be, and not control the outcome. She has been so controlled that she bought into parts of it. Well, she did a lot of thinking, and a lot of crying (which I did a bit of myself), and talked to a friend, and the outcome is she believes me, we are still deeply in love, and we even got the laundry done.<\/p>\n
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I had a friend unfriend me today for something I said to my old friend and inspiration, Moonlit_Lass. He said it was just cruel. I don’t remember saying anything cruel. Megan, if something I said hurt you, please illuminate me, and I am already sorry.<\/p>\n
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Hugs,<\/p>\n
Me<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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