The drama has passed. I’m sad, but safe. The beautiful woman who is carrying my child\/ren could not be happy with me. I could not make her well, and every time I tried to be with her more it touched off old fears and angers that had nothing to do with me, but I was supposed to be making her happy. I could not. We have ended our engagement. She is still staying with me, as is her brother. She has a new lover who DOES make her happy and feel better. I was not good enough. I may never be. Or she may be helped enough by her new man to not be triggered by me, and may return. She believes this; I do not know. All I know is I am sad. I am still keeping busy. I cry a lot. I knew I would lose her when I wrote her song, but that does not make it easier. It is good to see her happy. Others have hurt her badly, in the past and present, but only my words hurt her and they were not intended to. My Lady retains me as her Priest, for that is something I do well and enjoy. That’s about it for now.<\/p>\n
Hugs,
Me<\/p>\n
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The Man Code
LOL yeah sure like that’s me<\/p>\n
Thou shall not rent the movie “Chocolat”.<\/p>\n
Under no circumstances may 2 men share an umbrella.<\/p>\n
Any man who brings a camera to a bachelor party may be legally killed and eaten by his fellow partygoers.<\/p>\n
When queried by a buddy’s wife, girlfriend, mother, father, priest, shrink, dentist, accountant, or dog walker, you need not and should not provide any useful information whatsoever as to his whereabouts. You are permitted to deny his very existence.<\/p>\n
Unless he murdered a member of your immediate family, you must bail a friend out of jail within 12 hours.<\/p>\n
You may exaggerate any anecdote told in a bar by 50% without recrimination; beyond that, anyone within earshot is allowed to call BULLSHIT. (Exception: When trying to pick up a girl, the allowable exaggeration rate increases to 400%). If you’ve known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off-limits forever.<\/p>\n
The minimum amount of time you have to wait for another guy who is running late is 5 minutes. For a girl, you are required to wait 10 minutes for every point of hotness she scores on the classic 1-10 babe scale.<\/p>\n
Complaining about the brand of free beer in a buddy’s refrigerator is forbidden. You may however gripe if the temperature is unsuitable.<\/p>\n
No man is required to buy a birthday present for another man. In fact, even remembering a friend’s birthday is strictly optional and slightly gay.<\/p>\n
Agreeing to distract the ugly friend of a hot babe that your buddy is trying to hook up with is your legal duty. Should you get carried away with your good deed and end up having sex with the beast, your pal is forbidden to speak of it, even at your bachelor party.<\/p>\n
Before dating your buddy’s ex, you are required to ask his permission and he in return is required to grant it.<\/p>\n
Women who claim they “love to watch sports” must be treated as spies until they demonstrate knowledge of the game and the ability to pick a buffalo wing clean.<\/p>\n
If a man’s zipper is down, that’s his problem \u201cyou didn’t see nothin”.<\/p>\n
The universal compensation for buddies who help you move is BEER.<\/p>\n
A man must never own a cat, or like his girlfriend’s cat.<\/p>\n
When stumbling upon other guys watching a sports event, you may always ask the score of the game in progress, but you may never ask who’s playing.<\/p>\n
When your girlfriend\/wife expresses a desire to fix her whiny-assed friend up with your pal, you may give her the go-ahead only if you’ll be able to warn your buddy and give him time to prepare excuses about joining the priesthood.<\/p>\n
It is permissible to consume a fruity chick drink only when you’re sunning on a tropical beach and a topless model delivers it; and it’s free.<\/p>\n
Unless you’re in prison, never fight naked.<\/p>\n
A man in the company of a hot, suggestively dressed woman must remain sober enough to fight.<\/p>\n
If a buddy is outnumbered, out manned, or too drunk to fight, you must jump into the fight. (Exception: If within the last 24 hours his actions have caused you to think, “What this guy needs is a good ass-whoopin”, then you may sit back and enjoy).<\/p>\n
Phrases that may NOT be uttered to another man while weightlifting: Yeah, baby, push it!; mon, give me one more! Harder!; Another set and we can hit the showers; Nice Ass, are you a Sagittarius?<\/p>\n
Never hesitate to reach for the last beer or the last slice of pizza, but not both. That’s just plain mean.<\/p>\n
If you compliment a guy on his six-pack, you better be talking about his beer.<\/p>\n
Never join your girlfriend\/wife in dissing a buddy, except when she’s withholding sex pending your response.<\/p>\n
Never talk to a man in the bathroom unless your on equal footing: either both of you are urinating or both waiting in line. In all other situations, a nod is all the conversation needed.<\/p>\n
If a buddy is already singing along to a song in the car, you may not join him.
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