{"id":874,"date":"2006-03-01T00:12:17","date_gmt":"2006-03-01T05:12:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/peacefulhippo.wordpress.com\/2006\/03\/01\/874\/"},"modified":"2006-03-01T00:12:17","modified_gmt":"2006-03-01T05:12:17","slug":"874","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/2006\/03\/01\/874\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>True happiness is of a retired nature, and an enemy to pomp and noise;<br \/>\nit arises, in the first place, from the enjoyment of one&#8217;s self, and in<br \/>\nthe next from the friendship and conversation of a few select<br \/>\ncompanions.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Joseph Addison, The Spectator, March 17, 1911<\/p>\n<p>Now you are ready. Ready to make the shift from conditional love to<br \/>\nunconditional love. You are now ready to be with yourself rather than<br \/>\nby yourself. You have been through a &#8220;meantime&#8221; process in which you<br \/>\nhave become self-aware and self-reflective in order to make the<br \/>\nnecessary changes or shifts that will result in spiritual<br \/>\ntransformation. You are no longer in search of physical, emotional or<br \/>\nsexual satisfaction only. You want the true, full experience of love.<br \/>\nIf this is what you are going for, this is what you will get.<br \/>\n&#8211; Iyanla Vanzant<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nOnce, when we were discussing a world peace project with my teacher,<br \/>\nMaharishi Mahesh Yogi, somebody asked him, &#8220;Where is all the money<br \/>\ngoing to come from?&#8221; And he replied without hesitation, &#8220;From wherever<br \/>\nit is at the moment.&#8221; <br \/>\n&#8211; Deepak Chopra<\/p>\n<p>Intimacy is not sex, although sex can be intimate. Intimacy means<br \/>\nmutually honest, warm, caring, safe relationships where both people are<br \/>\nvalued for who they are.<br \/>\n&#8211; Melody Beattie<\/p>\n<p>Forgiveness is the way to true health and happiness. By not judging, we<br \/>\nrelease the past and let go of our fears of the future. In so doing, we<br \/>\ncome to see that everyone is our teacher and that every circumstance is<br \/>\nan opportunity for growth in happiness, peace and love.<br \/>\n&#8211; Gerald G. Jampolsky<\/p>\n<p>Once we know people&#8217;s stories, we feel compassion instead of judgment.<br \/>\nToday, practice remembering that everyone has a story.<br \/>\n&#8211; Mary Manin Morrissey<\/p>\n<p>Truth is not learned, it is recognized. The divine truth in us recognizes itself.<br \/>\n&#8211; Elbridge Gagnon<\/p>\n<p>Courage is reclaiming your life after a devastating event robs you of<br \/>\nyour confidence and self-esteem. It is facing tomorrow with a firm<br \/>\nresolve to reach deep within yourself to find another strength, another<br \/>\ntalent&#8230; It is taking yourself to another level of your own existence<br \/>\nwhere you are once again whole, productive, special..<br \/>\n&#8211; Catherine Britton<\/p>\n<p>Let someone listen to you, support and encourage you when you need<br \/>\nthat. Receive comfort from someone&#8217;s physical presence when you need<br \/>\nthat. Allow yourself to be supported emotionally and cared about.<br \/>\n&#8211; Melody Beattie<\/p>\n<p>Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed.<br \/>\nHappiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love,<br \/>\ngrace, and gratitude.<br \/>\n&#8211; Denis Waitley<\/p>\n<p>A deeper bonding with one&#8217;s spirit and with others at an essence level<br \/>\nis the spiritual opportunity of the new millennium, yet the first step<br \/>\nis an inside job-starting with oneself. People have an innate desire to<br \/>\nbond with others in the spirit of love, but an essential first step is<br \/>\nrolling up our sleeves and applying some elbow grease toward managing<br \/>\nattitudes and emotions that are not in line with our heart or authentic<br \/>\nself. Then bonding becomes not an action you do but a way of being, the<br \/>\nway of love.<br \/>\n&#8211; Doc Childre<\/p>\n<p>The time comes when we can no longer find refuge in our defenses. We<br \/>\ndiscover, often with awe, that it is precisely our defenses that have<br \/>\nkept us in darkness! We tire of straining to protect ourselves, and we<br \/>\nfeel stifled and restricted by the walls we have built between our<br \/>\nhearts and others. Our defenses are not worth the love we lose in<br \/>\nhiding. We cannot afford to maintain a citadel of fear at the cost of<br \/>\npeace. In our efforts to keep pain away from our heart, we have also<br \/>\ndenied entry to joy. The moment arrives when we must break free and<br \/>\nmake a stand for who we are. That moment is now. The time has come to<br \/>\ncast aside our cloak of smallness and don the robe which honors our<br \/>\ntrue magnitude. We must claim the strength to live in the dignity<br \/>\nbefitting our identity.<br \/>\n&#8211; Alan Cohen<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s good to focus on the task ahead, on what remains to be done. It&#8217;s<br \/>\nimportant to stop and feel pleased about what we&#8217;ve accomplished too.<br \/>\nYes, it may seem that the change has been slow. At times, change is<br \/>\ngrueling. Yes, we&#8217;ve taken steps backward. But we&#8217;re right where we&#8217;re<br \/>\nsupposed to be. We&#8217;re right where we need to be. And we have come so<br \/>\nfar.&nbsp; Sometimes by leaps, sometimes with tiny steps, sometimes<br \/>\nkicking and screaming all the while, sometimes with sleeves rolled up<br \/>\nand white knuckles, we&#8217;ve learned. Grown.&nbsp; Changed. Look how far<br \/>\nwe&#8217;ve come. <br \/>\nToday, I will appreciate my progress. I will let myself feel good about what has been accomplished.<br \/>\n&#8211; Melody Beattie<\/p>\n<p>=====<\/p>\n<p>Some of my readers complain I don&#8217;t talk much about my own life.&nbsp;<br \/>\nMy life is wonderful, with a few setbacks here and there that I try not<br \/>\nto dwell upon.&nbsp; Also I am opening myself to my Self, and the<br \/>\npeople I quote are saying things I need to hear, so I save them here.<\/p>\n<p>But every now and then I get the urge to write.&nbsp; The following is my latest poem.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align:center;\"><font size=\"4\"><span style=\"font-weight:bold;\">The Tao of Love<\/span><\/font>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-left:120px;\">You and I did not create our love<br \/>\nIt was there, and we accepted it<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-left:40px;\">made it ours<br \/>\nshared it<br \/>\nreveled in it<br \/>\nshowed it to our friends.\n<\/div>\n<p>If others do not accept it<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-left:40px;\">it is not theirs to accept,<br \/>\nor deny, or reject\n<\/div>\n<p>The uncreated cannot be unmade.<\/p>\n<p>(c) Moss Bliss, 2006 (written 2\/28)\n<\/div>\n<p>\nHugs,<br \/>\nMe<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>True happiness is of a retired nature, and an enemy to pomp and noise; it arises, in the first place, from the enjoyment of one&#8217;s self, and in the next from the friendship and conversation of a few select companions. &#8211; Joseph Addison, The Spectator, March 17, 1911 Now you are ready. 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