{"id":906,"date":"2005-12-21T23:54:31","date_gmt":"2005-12-22T04:54:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/peacefulhippo.wordpress.com\/2005\/12\/21\/906\/"},"modified":"2005-12-21T23:54:31","modified_gmt":"2005-12-22T04:54:31","slug":"906","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/2005\/12\/21\/906\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Knowledge devoid of devotion is like chewing stones. <br \/>\n&#8211; Mata Amritanandamayi<\/p>\n<p>If you decide to leave one relationship because you are unwilling to<br \/>\nforgive, what makes you think that you can succeed in another? It\u2019s<br \/>\ntrue, people are different and some people push your buttons more than<br \/>\nothers, but everyone is imperfect and everyone is going to push your<br \/>\nbuttons at one time or other. You ability to create a successful<br \/>\nrelationship depends not so much on your choice of partner, but on your<br \/>\nwillingness to forgive yourself and the partner you choose. By all<br \/>\nmeans, hold out for the partner you want. Insist on common goals,<br \/>\nshared interests and mutual attraction. Abandon any relationship that<br \/>\npromises to be abusive, even though you might eventually learn<br \/>\nsomething there. Don\u2019t play the game of love with half a deck.<br \/>\n&#8211; Paul Ferrini, <span style=\"font-style:italic;\">Miracle of Love<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Only those who go where few have gone can see what few have seen.<br \/>\n&#8211; Buddha<\/p>\n<p>Once the blossoms are gone, the fruit becomes visible; <br \/>\nWhen one fades away, the other starts growing. &nbsp;<br \/>\nHow could bread give strength without being broken?<br \/>\nHow could the grape give wine without being crushed?<br \/>\n&#8211; Rumi<\/p>\n<p>We become powerful in the face of our fears when we have a sense that<br \/>\nwe make a difference in this world. Affirmations of purpose communicate<br \/>\nthe truth that we are all meaningful participants in this Universe and<br \/>\nthat we are worthy of giving and receiving love.<br \/>\n&#8211; Susan Jeffers<\/p>\n<p>Learning is finding out what you already know, doing is demonstrating<br \/>\nthat you know it, teaching is reminding others that they know it as<br \/>\nwell as you do. We are all learners, doers, and teachers.<br \/>\n&#8211; Richard David Bach<\/p>\n<p>It all depends on how we look at things, and not on how things are in<br \/>\nthemselves. The least of things with a meaning is worth more in life<br \/>\nthan the greatest of things without it.<br \/>\n&#8211; Carl Gustav Jung<\/p>\n<p>Care more than others think wise. Risk more than others think safe.<br \/>\nDream more than others think practical. Expect more than others think<br \/>\npossible.<br \/>\n&#8211; Howard Schultz<\/p>\n<p>You will identify with what you think will make you safe. Whatever it<br \/>\nmay be, you will believe that it is one with you. Your safety lies in<br \/>\ntruth, and not in lies. Love is your safety. Fear does not exist.<br \/>\nIdentify with love, and you are safe. Identify with love, and you are<br \/>\nhome. Identify with love, and find your Self.<br \/>\n&#8211; from <span style=\"font-style:italic;\">A Course In Miracles<\/span><\/p>\n<p>You do not stop losing power by refusing to recognize your fear, by<br \/>\nanesthetizing yourself to what you feel. The road to authentic power is<br \/>\nalways through what you feel through your heart.<br \/>\n&#8211; Gary Zukav, <span style=\"font-style:italic;\">The Seat of the Soul<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Good judgment comes from experience, and experience &#8212; well that comes from poor judgment.<br \/>\n&#8211; Ez<\/p>\n<p>=====<\/p>\n<p>As I was passing the elephants, I suddenly stopped, confused by the<br \/>\nfact that these hugecreatures were being held by only a small rope<br \/>\ntied&nbsp;&nbsp; to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was<br \/>\nobvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their<br \/>\nbonds but for some reason, they did not.<br \/>\n&nbsp; &nbsp;<br \/>\nI saw a trainer nearby and asked why these beautiful, magnificent<br \/>\nanimals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. &#8220;Well,&#8221; he<br \/>\nsaid, &#8220;when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size<br \/>\nrope to tie them and, at that age, it&#8217;s enough to hold them. As they<br \/>\ngrow up, they are conditioned&nbsp; to believe they cannot break<br \/>\naway.&nbsp; They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never<br \/>\ntry to break free.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>I was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their<br \/>\nbonds but because they believed they couldn&#8217;t, they were stuck right<br \/>\nwhere they were.<br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;<br \/>\nLike the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a<br \/>\nbelief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once<br \/>\nbefore?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Anon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Knowledge devoid of devotion is like chewing stones. &#8211; Mata Amritanandamayi If you decide to leave one relationship because you are unwilling to forgive, what makes you think that you can succeed in another? 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