{"id":972,"date":"2005-04-25T19:30:32","date_gmt":"2005-04-25T23:30:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/peacefulhippo.wordpress.com\/2005\/04\/25\/972\/"},"modified":"2005-04-25T19:30:32","modified_gmt":"2005-04-25T23:30:32","slug":"972","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peacefulhippo.us\/blog\/2005\/04\/25\/972\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Tips from Louise Hay:<\/p>\n<p><\/b>1.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>Stop all criticism:<\/b>\u00a0 Criticism never changes a thing.\u00a0 Refuse to<br \/>\ncriticize yourself.\u00a0 Accept yourself exactly as you are.\u00a0 Everybody<br \/>\nchanges.\u00a0 When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative.\u00a0 When<br \/>\nyou approve of yourself, your changes are positive.<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>Don&#8217;t scare yourself:<\/b> \u00a0 Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts.\u00a0<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a dreadful way to live. \u00a0 Find a mental image that gives you<br \/>\npleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary<br \/>\nthought to a pleasure thought.<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0 <b>Be gentle and kind and patient:<\/b> \u00a0 Be gentle with yourself.\u00a0 Be kind to yourself.\u00a0 Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking.\u00a0 Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>Be kind to your mind:<\/b> \u00a0 Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts.\u00a0<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t hate yourself for having the thoughts.\u00a0 Gently change the<br \/>\nthoughts.<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>Praise yourself:<\/b> \u00a0 Criticism breaks the inner spirit.\u00a0 Praise builds it<br \/>\nup.\u00a0 Praise yourself as much as you can.\u00a0 Tell yourself how well you<br \/>\nare doing with every little thing.<\/p>\n<p>6.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>Support yourself:<\/b> \u00a0 Find ways to support yourself.\u00a0 Reach out to<br \/>\nfriends, and allow them to help you.\u00a0 It is being strong to ask for<br \/>\nhelp when you need it.<\/p>\n<p>7.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>Be loving to your negatives:<\/b> \u00a0 Acknowledge that you created them to<br \/>\nfulfill a need.\u00a0 Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill<br \/>\nthose needs.\u00a0 So. lovingly release the old negative patterns.<\/p>\n<p>8.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>Take care of your body:<\/b> \u00a0 Learn about nutrition.\u00a0 What kind of fuel<br \/>\ndoes your body need to have optimum energy and vitality?\u00a0 Learn about<br \/>\nexercise.\u00a0 What kind of exercise can you enjoy?\u00a0 Cherish and revere the<br \/>\ntemple you live in.<\/p>\n<p>9.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>Mirror work: <\/b> Look into your own eyes often.\u00a0 Express this growing<br \/>\nsense of love you have for yourself. \u00a0 Forgive yourself looking into<br \/>\nthe mirror.\u00a0 Talk to your parents looking into the mirror.\u00a0 Forgive<br \/>\nthem, too.\u00a0 At least once a day, say: &#8220;I love you, I really love you!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>10.\u00a0<br \/>\n<b>LOVE YOURSELF &#8211; 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